Busting Excuses: Why You Deserve a Boudoir Experience

When we start to feel the nerves we make excuses. We make excuses not to love ourselves or take care of ourselves. Sometimes life is just busy, we are too crazy at work, or always have to drive someone SOMEWHERE. Sometimes, it’s more important to spend time with our spouse. We also use excuses like ”I wanna lose 15 lbs first!” and “ i just don’t have the money right now!” I wanted to write the blog to chat with you about no matter the excuse you CAN do it ! Let me show you that no matter the excuse, you are worthy of Owning your beautiful!

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“I Don’t have enough time for myself”

It’s important to remember that if you aren’t taking care of yourself mentally, you’re not going to be able to handle taking care of everyone else. Which makes sense but is actually much harder said then done! Sometimes I am the WORST at making sure I am giving myself mental health breaks and that’s why I think it’s so important to share this with you all. I make the same excuses as above and sometimes I need someone to look me in the face and say “SLOW DOWN, give yourself a break, breath for a minute.”

At a boudoir session you are able to breath, ad love yourself for a few hours. think of all the energy you’ll save on a daliy basis if you stop comparing yourself to others, or stop worrying about what other people will think of how you look. You get to see where your beautfy really comes from and this lifts such a huge mental weight. You need to take time for yourself, why not spend it having an amazing time and getting glammed up for once?

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I’m not where I want to be weight wise/ I don’t fit the media’s idea of a good enough size”

Did you know the body type portrayed in advertising as the ideal is possessed naturally by only 5% of American females? ONLY FIVE PERCENT!

I will say this over and over again but WHY do you have to be a certain size to LOVE yourself? WHY do you have to fit a strangers idea of a perfect body to LOVE your own body? Why are you comparing your size to everyone else, when no two women are the same!

I think it is amazing to have goals and want to get healthy, but does that mean you have to hate your body to do those things? Does it mean that everyone’s “healthy body” is going to look the same? Absolutely NOT! You should love yourself every step of the way or at least start to accept your body. Be proud of where you are so that you can be proud of where you’re going. Have a boudoir shoot to celebrate where you are now, and then have one when you lose that 15 lobs to celebrate how far you’ve come!

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“I never feel sexy or sensual anymore so a boudoir shoot is not for me”


This excuse is actually the EXACT reason you SHOULD do a boudoir session.

Often times we lose touch with our femininity or sexuality when life gets crazy because of health/kids/works. It happens a lot and it is absolutely normal and okay! A great way to find this side of ourselves agian is to have a boudoir shoot done to put that spark back in us. I can show you that you have that inside you somewhere, and it might even ignite a spark between you and your spouse as well!

Another thing to remember is that you don’t HAVE to wear super sexy clothing/ lingerie. If you feel like this doesn’t show your personality, then there are so many other outfit ideas. If you need ideas, I will gladly talk to you about them or you can check out our blog on finding outfits here.

“A boudoir session is an investment and I don’t have all of the money right now!”

Yes a boudoir session IS an investment. It is also an investment in yourself. You are investing in your well-being and confidence as well! We do offer pre payment plans!! In order to save your boudoir session date on the calendar, there is a booking retainer, and after that we can set up a payment plan for the products and images. Ready to find out more about a session and the payment plans? Set up a call here!


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